Already been there and other places to read.    Tried it again this morning and learned that if the other machine's queue manager is up and running then it will connect once.  Not very efficent.  It seems to be fickled or something.  The way it reads is that when you send your project to the queue manager it brings up both.  So far no.  Smith Micro doesn't seem to support it.

If you get yours working, let me know.